Be Aggressive, B-E AGGRESSIVE

If I had just one bit of advice for men out there, it would be one thing: be aggressive. Nothing, I mean, NOTHING is more attractive than a man that knows what he wants and goes after it with every fiber of his being. *

I'm not sure what happened in our society where men were told that what woman want is a sensitive man that allows her to make all the decisions. Is it a backlash of the feminist movement? That men interpreted our desire for power, freedom, equality as a reason to become lazy and unmotivated? That a strong-willed woman only is attracted to a weak man that'll give into her every demand?

Can't a woman be independent and self-sufficient and still want someone to open the pickle jar for her?

Woman are often attracted to the asshole, this isn't news to anyone, but I think it comes down to science--he appears to be the strongest of the pack, the one that would be the best provider. However, women don't want to be with the asshole. We don't want to love the asshole. We want to be with the nice guy that has a bit of a edge to him. (For those Swingers fans...a little more Trent and a little less Mikey.)


I am exhausted of meeting a guy that seems great only to find out that he's weak. He ends up relying on me for more than I'm willing to give him. Whether it be emotionally, physically, financially, etc. I seem to be perfectly capable of taking care of myself, why can't he? Or he is initially attracted to my independence but starts to resent it when I'm not clinging on his every word.

Nothing impresses me more, or any of my female friends, than a guy that is able to seal the deal/make the move/score a touchdown. Don't just eye flirt. Or spend hours talking to us and not ask for the number. Make the move. Be the man we want to be with.



*There is a fine line between being aggressive and being a jerk. Learn that line and live it.